Hallo and welcome back, faithful ones!
(Does that make me sound like a TV preacher/cult leader? If so, ignore the statement.)
So since I last spoke with you all (or posted on here, but the first sounds more conversational, don’t you think?) I have moved in to my new (old really, since we lived here last time and have been renting it out ever since) house, unpacked many boxes, battled for the ever–needed INTERNET and done an awful lot of waiting. Seriously. LOTS of waiting.
So I figured today I would not only fill you in on my life situation, I would also give you a helpful guide to moving, since I have the experience of many many moves (which sounds like many many MOONS, which sounds cooler but is less accurate) and can fill you in on important details, like whether or not you should bring folding chairs in your car rather than packing them with your things. (Incedentally, yes you should.)
Well my faithful readers (still too TV preacher/cult leader?) I have THREE funfacts for you today (le gasp!) because I believe I forgot in some of my previous posts to give you any at all, forgetful thing that I am.
1. I am currently sharing a bedroom with my sister and will be until college starts in the fall.
2. I FINALLY got my roommate situation sorted out. (I know. I never thought it was gonna happen either.)
3. I am currently working on a novel, which I recently started and may (please please please) actually finish *knock on wood*.
(All questions please direct yourselves to the comments……..NOW!)
So anyhow, roomie situation first, then I’ll tell you about my move, THEN you’ll get “SunnyLunatic’s Helpful Guide to Moving Without Going Completely Bonkers” (SLHGMWGCB if you prefer acronyms)
Well in the roommate news, it’s not good. All my roomies seem nice and all, but my number one dorm choice (the all-female one and the one I was assigned 2 different rooms in previously) was not the dorm I ended up in. I ended up in the mildly seedy-looking dorm that I stayed in during orientation. And people wonder why I’m seriously thinking about transferring next year. This college is my second-choice anyway, and so far it’s not looking like I’m giving up much, other than the beach and the people.
In our set of 4 rooms (2 rooms share a study room and all 4 share a 2-sided bathroom with 2 toilets, 2 sinks, 2 showers) there are 10 girls. 2 temporary triples because the school overbooked. Yay-rah. Everyone I’ve talked to via email or Facebook seems really nice, but cramming ten girls into four double-sized rooms is asking for trouble, if you ask me. (And even if you didn’t my opinion remains the same.)
The move was fine. We got all our boxes on Monday and have since worked through many of them. There are still boxes sitting around and since my parents are re-doing part of the house, everything stays out of that area for now so the boxes will have to stick around a little longer. Not to mention that my mother is insistant upon re-doing the upstairs bathroom. These renovations include the use of a sledgehammer. Don’t’cha just LOVE my family?
Anywho, on to….SunnyLunatic’s Helpful Guide to Moving Without Going Completely Bonkers (again, or SLHGMWGCB if you prefer acronyms)
MOVING OUT: BEFORE THE PACKERS ARRIVE
Before people arrive to pack your stuff, start with Step 1: purge. (I don’t mean vomit up your food, so all you pro-ana and pro-bulimia idiots can cool it and go eat something and keep it down…wow that was a terrible and totally unintended pun…) Get rid of the things you don’t need/don’t use/don’t want. Like that collection of ceramic cats that your great-aunt Irene gave to you 5 years ago and you didn’t really like, but you didn’t know how to get rid of them without hurting her feelings. Or the set of china plates your neighbors gave to you, even though you already have a china set. Or the broken VCR you’ve saved because you wanted to get it fixed but you have a new one already. Cheap trinkets you got out of a quarter-machine.
The purge helps with having less stuff to move in that you’ll inevitably throw away. It also gives you an excuse to toss the ceramic cats or pass them on to another family member to ‘cherish’. So respect the purge and do a good job asking yourself if you’re honestly gonna USE the collectors coffee-mug set.
Step 2: Sort.
You have a LOT of stuff. Or maybe you don’t. Either way, you don’t want to dig through 7 different boxes to find the forks. So start with one room and sort it. Clothes in the dresser and closet. Trinkets all in one box or in one space. Packers generally don’t do: liquids, candles, money. Also, it’s in your better interest to keep your valuables and take them with you in the car. Your grandmother’s pearl necklace, your bank statements, things that can be stolen and sold should be kept with you. This is not to say that movers are untrustworthy or that they will steal your things. However, if something important can be lost or misplaced, you don’t want it to be something you can’t replace or something that can do damage to you in the wrong hands (like your credit card statements or Social Security Card.) So get a small suitcase or bag for those things and the day the packers come, before they arrive, put them in your no-move zone or in your car.
Step 3: Takedown.
Take everything off the walls. The packers won’t do it for you. Pictures, mirrors, posters, decorative hanging rugs, it’s all gotta come down. If you’re selling/renting out your house, now is also a good time to paint over and fill in all the nail marks and whatnot that you’ve left on the walls.
Step 4: Packing.
Until the movers bring you your stuff, you’ll have to live out of a suitcase. Pack smart. Enough clothes and at least one extra set. Shoes. A first aid kit. Your valuables. Toiletries. A towel. Things you’ll need with you when the rest of it is all in boxes. Before your movers arrive, designate a ‘no-pack area’ preferably a closet or bathroom, keep the door shut, and put a sign on it reading ‘do not pack.’ Or put it all in your car, if you have a car.
Step 5: Food.
The packers will pack some food. The unopened kind. The kind that isn’t in your fridge. So–have a dinner party or a potluck or a give-away event. Get rid of the food you can’t take. Only have enough in your fridge for what is absolutely necessary for the next couple of days. If you have a little left over, than you can put it in a cooler and take it with you, but don’t plan on just putting it all in a couple coolers. You don’t want to be lugging around a cooler full of condiments and have your car break down on the freeway.
Step 6: Planning ahead.
See if you want to get your things insured.
Find out about your moving company (or if it’s some friends, then find out what they’re going to require). Do its workers bring their own lunches? What policies do they have on valuables, liquids, candles? Check out the company or others who have used it. Nobody likes seedy movers. If they don’t bring their lunches and some is expected to be provided, make sure you have the number of a pizza or sub place. Or some of the leftover food in your fridge.
Regardless of food policies, always have water available, and (especially in the south) iced tea. It’s thirsty work.
MOVING OUT: THE PACKERS AND MOVERS
Step 7: The packers arrive.
Label your rooms. Whether it’s verbally or with sticky notes, make sure they know which room is which, because they label the box by room, and then sub-label it by contents. And it’s not always detailed. Sometimes it’s going to say “LR Shelves” on the box. (living room shelves.) The fact that you had three shelving sets in your living room is irrelevant. Make sure they know where things go.
Supervise. I don’t mean hover and micromanage, but having a conversation with one of your packers while you keep an eye on the room never killed anyone. (Unless your packers are insane serial killers. Just saying.)
Step 8: The movers.
Well you’re all packed up in boxes, living out of a suitcase until the movers pick up your stuff. Then, hey! Moving day is here! Same feeding rules apply to movers as they do to packers, but be doubly sure about the liquids. Moving heavy boxes requires hydration.
They will tag your things with moving stickers and take inventory. Same thing happens at the new house with the stickers. They make sure they have everything.
MOVING IN
Step 9: Home Sweet (New) Home
You’re HERE! Your brand new house/apartment/condo/cardboard box in a comfortable alleyway or subway tunnel is open and waiting to be filled with boxes! All you have to do is wait and label the rooms, just like you did at the old house.
Step 10: The movers are back!
Well now that they’re here, you’re a pro at feeding and watering these people. So get to it! They’ll need direction as where to furniture and some boxes go. Make sure you know ahead of time where you want the funriture because they’ll put the boxes anywhere, and if you want the sofa on the east wall, the stack of boxes will have to be moved again. So supervise, just like the first time.
Step 10: Unpacking.
It’s all on you, now. Unpack the boxes. You can flatten them and save the paper too, because people who are self-mvoing (check craigslist) often are looking for boxes and packing paper. Also, if there’s a preschool or elementary school nearby, they might like the paper for coloring. (Or if you have kids/grandkids/neices/nephews/neighborhood children/starving artists hanging around, they might like them too.) Peel off all the moving stickers (though there’ll always be a few which will turn up years later) and enjoy your brand new home, with all your stuff safely in it.
Well this is Sunny, signing off!!!